Twenty-twenty ripped off the layers on love and intimacy. It called us out on our definitions and perceptions of love over and over again. If only your last Valentine’s card had come with the memo! But don’t worry, we’ve got your back. You can consider these powerful messages from the Wisdom of the Oracle deck as detailed instructions for your love life this year.
Aquarius: January 21 – February 18
You are standing too close to the tree to see the forest or rather the path ahead. Take a few steps back; create a little distance between you and your desire. Whether you are single or in a relationship, you need to observe yourself and note the patterns you are repeating. There’s a change to be made.
Some might be in the midst of a conflict as they are reading this message. Take a step back and change your perspective. You may be looking at things based on your past experiences when that’s not at all what’s happening right now. Be aware of old fears hitting the alarms within. You are safe, and your connection is true.
Pisces: February 19 – March 20
Feeling unloved, abandoned, lost – this seems to be the overarching mood. But it’s an illusion, a story your mind is telling you to keep you safe from heartbreak. This is not a time for holding on just to avoid a loss; it isn’t even a time for compromises. It’s in fact, it is time to put it all to the test and make the brave choice of choosing yourself.
If you are single, you need to look at actions instead of falling for words. You also need to stop treating disappointment as a heartbreak. Finding love is an adventure. It’s okay to feel exhausted by the whole process, but who is to blame for that? Don’t
make love a mission, when all it’s supposed to be is a simple and fulfilling journey.
Those in a relationship, this is not the time to encourage or build unhealthy habits because that’s the only way you feel you can hold on to it all. Let the universe move what is not for you out of your life. You will find love again. Who knows, the universe might even bring this current equation into balance. But for that, you need to stop trying, step back and allow the magic to unfold.
Aries: March 21 – April 20
Romance, love, intimacy, connection – these are the words of wisdom the oracle sends your way. This is a beautiful time for new relationships to blossom. This is also a time for those wanting to have children to be gifted the journey of parenthood.
Stand in faith and enjoy this phase of love and laughter. Trust that what you are experiencing is for real. Memories are being created as you read this.
Taurus: April 21 – May 21
This is the sign you’ve been waiting for. Single Taurians get ready to fall in love and experience the sweet beginnings of a new relationship. And those in relationships, it’s like you are going to be writing a whole new book and not just another chapter.
This is a time to write down exactly what you want to experience in your love life irrespective of whether you are single or in a relationship. Write a love story for yourself and watch it manifest.
Gemini: May 22 – June 21
Put in the work. Love isn’t always about romance and Instagram posts. It’s about sticking together through the routine; often it’s also about settling into a routine. If you are single, then this is a time to bring your life on track and not just obsess about a relationship. It’s about putting in the work to become who you need to be in order to manifest that relationship you are dreaming of.
For those in a relationship, what are the daily tasks you’ve been taking for granted? It’s time to recalibrate and do the tiny, boring things like daily chores, grocery runs and playing chauffeur to the family. What does your partner need right now? Your daily actions must be a response to this question.
Cancer: June 22 – July 22
How many times will you make the same choices and hope like hell for a different result? You are stuck in a never-ending pattern. Single Cancerians need to go back to the drawing board with their dating game while those in relationships need to think about their partner’s habits that they are sustaining.
Your love life isn’t working out because your choices aren’t aligned with your desires. What are you afraid of? This is a time to take a hard look at yourself and your beliefs about love and relationships. What have you been conditioned to believe and how are those conflicting with your desires? That’s the question you need to work upon. As the internet meme goes, “If you want different results, do not do the same things”.
Leo: July 23 – August 23
Take a chance on love! To all the single Leos out there, that third date you are going on? Take a chance on that person. Don’t let your fears stall you. Go on dates… lots of them. This is the time to take the leap of faith for your desires. Those who receive marriage proposals right now; it’s a good time to say yes. Once again, take that leap of faith. And those already in relationships, get going on those plans you are making. It’s time to move forward with your dreams.
Virgo: August 24 – September 22
Virgos who have been asking, “when will I find love?”, this is that year. There’s a relationship on the horizon for you, and it will be one that can transform into a magical journey of life. Those in relationships indulge a lot. Enjoy the love, thrive in your relationship. This is the time to put down some relationship goals and build the life you’ve only ever spoken about. For those, who may find themselves in a hard place, the wisdom of the oracle wants you to know that you can trust the person; you can take a chance; maybe even forgive and move forward if that’s what you are struggling with. The love is for real.
Libra: September 23 – October 23
This is a time to let go of control and allow the wind and the tides to guide your ship. Communication needs to be the focus. Now is the time to talk about what you want, whether you are single or in a relationship. This isn’t about asking or demanding, but more about clarity and honesty. Remember that even if you want to control every situation’s outcome, you cannot, you will not be allowed. To trust is the only choice available to you right now. How can you build your faith? That’s the question to answer, the habit to build. The universe reassures you that you are being heard and your love life is moving in a direction that is appropriate for your highest good.
Scorpio: October 24 – November 22
The heartbroken will find love again. There’s a rekindling of feelings, and this is an opportunity to write a new story even if the characters are old ones or the circumstances feel too familiar. The seasons are changing, and it’s time to look towards a new day, new experiences. Relationships that are stuck or stagnating will feel the churn. It’s not about ‘what can you do?’ but more about ‘what do you want?’ Create a room within your crowded thoughts to believe that love is flowing towards you.
Sagittarius: November 23 – December 21
Everything is exactly as it is meant to be. What then do you need to just accept? Think about all those words of doubt and cast them aside. The universe is working according to plan, and now is the time to read the signs. You have either met or will meet the person you have been seeking. As for those in relationships, this is not a time to question; but to know that all is well. And when the universe says it out this clearly, there is only one thing you should do – THRIVE!
Capricorn: December 22 – January 20
This is a year of going with the flow – something that many Capricorns who pride themselves for their discipline and self-control may find hard. But love is an experience and to live it fully you have to surrender. Avoid seeking guarantees, instead, take smaller steps forward, move at snail’s pace if ‘going with the flow’ freaks you out.
For those who are single, the wisdom of the oracle is telling you to breathe and recenter yourself. You are trying too hard to make the relationship happen. Be careful not to become desperate in your quest to find ‘the one’. If you are in a relationship, the oracle is asking you to cut back on all the planning and live a little. Ease up on your need to be responsible, cut yourself some slack and indulge.
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