Love isn’t about sparks and chemistry anymore. For almost half of Indian singles, the real magic happens when something unimaginable turns into something more. Built on trust, comfort, and knowing someone inside out, it’s proof that your next romance might just be with your best friend.
What Came First? Crush Or Friend?
Somewhere between sharing playlists, listening to each other’s rants, and knowing exactly how they like their coffee, friendships are quietly turning into something more. Forget the dramatic meet-cutes, 43% of Indian singles now say the best relationships begin as friendships.
Emotional Safety Is The New Spark
According to happn’s 2025 Trendbook, this rise in friendship-to-romance transitions is more than just a vibe, it’s a verified trend. It’s especially resonant with people who’ve done all the dating rounds and learnt what really matters.
These are the people who’ve been ghosted, breadcrumbed, or love-bombed, and who now just want something real.
Of course, not every BFF is a future bae. Some of the singles believe it “depends on the connection.” That makes sense because some friendships are made for pep talks and late-night venting, not candlelight dinners. But when the connection is right and both people are open to exploring it, the leap can feel more natural than nerve-racking.
Why It Just, Works.
Why are friendships proving to be such a powerful foundation for love? It comes down to emotional fluency for 52% of them, the quiet ability to read each other’s moods, navigate stress, and handle those perfectly human off days. Another 28% say it’s the honesty that sets friendships apart. There’s no need to curate your personality or polish your replies, you get to show up exactly as you are, not as the version designed to impress.
And for 19%, the magic lies in simply feeling seen. No games. No decoding. Just being. In a world where dating often feels performative, friendship offers a kind of emotional clarity—and that’s exactly where love has the space to grow.
When the Crush Becomes Mutual
Once the emotional groundwork is in place, it’s no surprise that many are willing to risk the friendship in hopes of something more. When the vibe is right, the risk feels worth it. And increasingly, singles are choosing to explore that potential is open, vulnerable, and with a lot less fear of messing it up.
It’s not about rushing. It’s about recognising whether the connection you’re building with someone already feels like love, even if you didn’t call it that at first.
Dating Apps Are Catching On Too
Even online dating or dating apps are adapting to this shift. happn’s new Relationships feature lets users define what they’re truly looking for and guess what? “Friendship” is now the fourth most-selected option for 28% of users.
Karima Ben Abdelmalek, CEO and President of happn, explains it best:
“There’s something deeply real about love that grows from friendship, built on emotional safety, understanding, and the comfort of being truly seen. More and more, singles are finding that the connections they crave already exist in their friendships. That’s exactly what our Relationships feature supports: giving users the freedom to define what they’re looking for. Since its launch, friendship has become the fourth most sought-after relationship type on happn, chosen by 28% of users.”
So, whether it’s Rahul & Anjali’s long-overdue epiphany on the basketball court, Bunny & Naina’s slow-burn adventure into love, or Monica & Chandler turning sarcasm and takeaways into true romance, bollywood and sitcoms have been dropping hints for decades.
Love doesn’t always arrive with fireworks; sometimes, it quietly builds over years of friendship, laughter, and maybe 499 hangouts. The numbers speak for themselves: when it comes to love, your best friend might just be your biggest plot twist.