SOCIAL WORKER AND MUSICIAN
People have often been unreasonably insensitive about my choice of wearing a burqa and a veil. I’ve stopped looking at negative comments on social media, which can range from being called a dustbin to a tent. While dealing with trolls can be very emotionally draining, having a strong support system in my amazing family and friends has helped me immensely. As a social worker, I believe my clothes reflect my sense of modesty, humility as well as confidence to wear what I am comfortable in.
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‘HOLDING MY GROUND’
I’ve always had a strong opinion about my sartorial choices; so in 2018, when I was trolled for wearing a sari with a veil to the 10th year celebration of Slumdog Millionaire, I decided to be vocal about it. It was unfair that my father, AR Rahman, was dragged into the controversy, where people assumed he forced me to wear a veil. This was completely untrue because I am not compelled by anyone to dress a certain way.
‘FREEDOM IS IN COMFORT’
I’m no stranger to receiving unsolicited advice. I remember this one time when someone close to me insisted I would look “prettier” if I trimmed my eyebrows. She didn’t seem to quite understand that I’ve accepted myself the way I am—comfortable in my own skin. I do not want to be judged for my choices anymore.
Illustration: Vivan Kamath
